‘Everyday Is A Struggle’


‘It’s
a
struggle
for
everybody,
even
established
people
are
struggling.’


Photograph:
Kind
courtesy
Manasi
Parekh/Instagram


Manasi
Parekh

is
thrilled
to


win
a
National
Award

for
Best
Actress
for
her
Gujarati
film,

Kutch
Express
,
and
hopes
that
things
will
fall
into
place
for
her
and
her
husband,
who
has
produced
the
film.

Known
for
television
series
like

India
Calling

and

Kasautii
Zindagii
Kay
,
Manasi
tells

Subhash
K
Jha,

“I
feel
so
validated
because
when
I
started
acting
some
six,
seven
years
ago,
a
lot
of
the
Hindi
industry
people
were
like,
“Why
are
you
doing
Gujarati
films?”
I
was
like
I’m
forging
my
own
path
because
I
believe
there’s
so
much
potential
in
regional
languages.”


So
another
famous
Parekh
after
Asha?

(Laughs)
I
wish
that
would
come
true.
I
am
in
a
state
of
disbelief.

I
have
been
gushing
and
crying
because
this
was
so
unexpected.


How
did
your
family
react
after
hearing
this
announcement?

My
husband
produced

Kutch
Express
.

My
daughter
is
seven
years
old
and
she’s
like,
‘Oh,
why
are
you
crying?
You
should
be
happy
when
you
win
an
award.’


Photograph:
Kind
courtesy
Manasi
Parekh/Instagram


It’s
quite
an
achievement
because
you
just
did
your
work
and
let
that
speak
for
itself?

Absolutely.
I
feel
so
validated
because
when
I
started
acting
some
six,
seven
years
ago,
a
lot
of
the
Hindi
industry
people
were
like,
“Why
are
you
doing
Gujarati
films?”
I
was
like
I’m
forging
my
own
path
because
I
believe
there’s
so
much
potential
in
regional
languages.


The
language
barriers
fell
like
five,
six
years
ago.

Absolutely.

I
also
think
it’s
a
great
sense
of
validation
for
my
hard
work
and
you
know,
to
be
in
a
film
that
talks
about
feminism.

IMAGE:
Manasi
Parekh
with
husband
Parthiv
Gohil
and
daughter
Nirvi.

Photograph:
Kind
courtesy
Manasi
Parekh/Instagram


How
do
you
balance
your
personal
life
with
your
work?
Does
your
daughter
feel
upset?

Yeah,
she
does
get
a
little
sad
but
she
understands.
I
have
done
seven
films
after
giving
birth
to
her.

Every
year,
there
are
a
couple
of
projects
that
I’m
away
for.

She’s
used
to
it
and
then,
you
know,
one
balances
it
out.


Has
it
been
a
struggle
to
get
where
you
are?

Yes,
it
has
always
been
a
struggle.

It’s
a
struggle
for
everybody,
even
established
people
are
struggling.

Everyday
is
a
struggle,
more
so
in
the
entertainment
industry.

Also,
as
an
actress,
there
is
always
this
struggle
to
get
the
parts
one
wants.

IMAGE:
Manasi
Parekh,
Darsheel
Safary,
Ratna
Pathak
Shah,
Dharmendra
Gohil
and
Viraf
Patel
on
the

Kutch
Express

poster.

Photograph:
Kind
courtesy
Manasi
Parekh/Instagram


But
you
got
a
strong
performance-oriented
role
in

Kutch
Express
.

Yeah,
but
that’s
because
I
produced
it.
You
know,
we
can’t
wait
for
others
to
do
it
for
us.
We
have
to
fend
for
ourselves.

I
believe
that
the
time
has
come
for
us
to
do
what
we
want
to
do.

This
award
is
a
validation
of
my
struggle
and
other
actresses
like
me.

Even
in
Gujarati
when
I
started
out,
there
were
not
many
female
parts
written.
You
always
have
the
male
as
the
central
character.

IMAGE:
Paresh
Rawal,
Chetan
Dhanani
and
Manasi
Parekh
in

Dear
Father
.

Photograph:
Kind
courtesy
Manasi
Parekh/Instagram


What
films
of
yours
would
you
recommend
for
audiences
who
haven’t
seen
your
work?

You
must
see

Dear
Father

with
Paresh
Rawal.

I
did
a
small
role
in

Uri
.

In
Hindi,
there’s
been
too
much
of
waiting
for
me
and
I’m
not
the
kind
of
person
who
likes
to
wait.

Lekin
main

wait

kyon
karoon?

I
am
doing
my
bit
in
Gujarat
and
thankfully
getting
the
support
of
the
audience.

My
film

Jhamkudi

is
a
big
hit. 


So
celebration
time
in
the
family?

Absolutely.
Except
that
I’m
busy
shooting.

My
next
film
is
a
beautiful
love
story
about
a
single
mother
and
a
younger
guy.

That
subject
has
never
been
explored
in
Gujarat.
It
will
release
in
January-February.

My
husband
Parthiv
Gohil
is
a
singer.
Both
of
us
wanted
to
do
something
for
the
Gujarati
language
and
that’s
how
we
started
our
production
house.

I
hope
things
will
fall
in
place
after
this
National
Award.


What
do
you
think
of
Nithya
Menen
with
whom
you
share
the
National
Award?
Have
you
watched
her
work?

No,
I
haven’t.
But
I
know
her
and
am
very
happy
for
her.


Photographs
curated
by
Satish
Bodas/Rediff.com